An Up and Down Relationship
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
it is a long story.i am in love with a girl from the last 1&1/2years.this july i told her & she refused but after 1 week she accepted me becoz i was not eating the food. our relationship went for a week then suddenly it broke.then after 3 weeks we met &i talked her in a very indescent way bcoz she ,inbetween, showed me a slap out of some missunderstanding and she returned all of my gifts.was she right to give back all my gifts?then i gave her a letter of sorry from my side after 20 days. she did not gave me any reply.i love that girl very much and i always think of her due to which i am facing many many problems in my studies.
what should i do? please tell me how to tell the girl that i need her love, i can do anything for her,i love her alot ,when she gave back my gifts i cried alone,how to show her that i am still crying for her ,i feel her abscence everywhere.please help me...i need her love.
If you spoke indecently to her, then certainly she could give you back your gifts - many woman I know would have tossed them into the trash! You should feel lucky that she was nice enough to bring them back to you. A relationship is about treating each other with respect, and if someone betrays that, the other person doesn't have an obligation to just sit and take it.
If you are truly sorry about upsetting her, then let her know. Write her another letter, and follow it up with a phone call. Hopefully she will see that you are serious and give you another chance, and hopefully this time you will not abuse that trust.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com