Getting to Know Her

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I'am 13 years old. I am a handsome kid and very gentlemen like. But my problem is I'm shy, especially when it comes to girls. Don't get me wrong, I like girls. In school I have been watching this girl for some time now. She is very beautiful and very popular. She is smart and funny. I think i'm the right guy for her. Problem is that we don't know each other that well, and i'm shy.

What should I do/say to let her get to know me and talk to me? What do I do when she has never even met me before? I think we would make a great couple. Thank You Advice
It's natural to be shy when you're talking to someone you are interested in but don't know. The whole point of flirting is to break the ice, to get to know someone and to become friends with them. So start flirting with her!

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remember that the aim is to become her FRIEND so that she can learn more about you and you about her. Don't rush things, just think about friendship. That will help you be less shy, and let you both feel more comfortable together.

-- from Jenn
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