Re-igniting an Old Flame
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My ex boyfriend and i went to school together and we are finally seniors. We dated sophmore year during high school and broke up in the begining of september 2001.
I recently developed old feelings for him and i dont know what to do. I told him how i felt and im confused. What should i do?
A lot of people try to get back together with an old boyfriend or girlfriend, because they figure they can go back to how things once were. Of course they remember all the great times and conveniently forget the bad times that made them break up in the first place!!
It CAN work but it takes effort. I have tips on it here -
you have to have WIDE open eyes and fully talk about the things that went wrong. The only way they can be fixed is to talk about them. If you ignore them they will just happen again. Then take it slow and hopefully things will work out better this time, now that you both are more mature!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com