I'm Shy - Does She Like Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hey, i have a question, this one girl, i really like, i heard a while ago from somebody that she thinks im handsome, but that was few months ago, im not sure what to think.
her best friend knows i like her, but i dunno if shes told her, sometimes she seems to look at me from behind, and sometimes we just kid around and talk abit.
lately its changed, shes just not the same, wont talk much, is it cuz she might know i like her and is shy or somethin, cuz i know shes shy, but im not sure, and im not sure of myself cuz my confidence is usally shot to hell.
The only way to know how someone feels is to spend time with them and see how they act with you. So spend time with her! That is what flirting is all about - getting to know someone, letting them get to know you, having fun together.
I have a lot of advice on flirting here -
If this girl thinks you're handsome, that's OK, but believe me good looks only get you the initial contact. You need to let her know YOU and that you are fun to be with. That is why you have to flirt with her, talk with her and get to be friends. That is what builds an actual relationship.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com