Getting Over a Fight
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
me and my boyfriend have had a really big fight because i left home to be with him we have split up so how do i get him back
First, having disagreements about issues is normal. There is no way that two people could agree on everything, and if you did, the relationship would be REALLY boring. The fun of a relationship is stretching your mind and learning new things, and you can't do that if your two brains simply say "OK sure" to each other constantly.
However, *fighting* isn't good. It means you two don't respect each other enough to discuss an issue, you have to resort to yelling and maybe being nasty to each other. So you need to sit down with him and talk about it, about why you crossed over the line into fighting, and how you can work in the future to resolve things without crossing that line. Good luck!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com