I Want a Miracle to Fix My Life
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hallo. Thank you for reading my e-mail and answering. It was a long time ago when I saw her. i fell in love with her and I tried step by step to talk her and make her see me as something more than a friend. I don't know if my tries were sucessful. After some time, I asked her if she wanted to become my girlfriend. She rejected me and I tried to find one other girlfriend but I failed. I STILL LOVE HER. Why god to do it to me? What should I do? I need your help. PLS answer me!
OK, now this is your 7th email to me :) You're not actually working on your problems, you're just emailing me and expecting me to fix them long distance! In this world it comes down to YOU MAKING YOURSELF HAPPY. This means YOU HAVE TO TAKE RISKS and put your heart and soul into working on a task that leads in that direction. You can't just ask for miracles to descend from the heavens and help you out!
There's a saying - Heaven Helps Those who Help Themselves. God is not doing this to you. YOU are doing this to you. Something that is worth having is worth working for.
This old girl says she doesn't want to date you. That's fine! There are BILLIONS of other girls out there. You tried one and that's it? And you're giving up and asking for help?
Obviously that girl is NOT right for you. You gave it your best shot, it didn't work out. You know, we can't have everything we want in life. That's the way things work. So go out with your friends, join clubs that are about hobbies you enjoy, and get out into the world. There are MANY other girls out there and if you do things you love, with people who you enjoy being with, you will meet a girl who IS right for you. But YOU have to do these things and YOU have to take those steps. I can't do these things for you and I can't MAKE you do these things even though I keep telling you to. If you ask me again, there's nothing else I can say! This is UP TO YOU TO DO.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com