He was rude to me, I was rude to him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, I had a boyfriend for 2 months in college and He is new in this college. I have studied here for 5 years. He asked me to quit other boy that I had some relation with him, He told me that I dont like the topics about sex that he talk about. I wanted to ask what do I have to do? I like the other one as well. Also this week he got somehow angry with me and he just told me that we`ll talk later, and after 2 days he asked me on the chat for talk on the following day and I accepted, but one of my friends (girl) told me the day to ignore him and he was waiting for me and I didnt go to see him. He asked me and I told him among others that there is nothing that I want to talk about. And he said ok and left me.
What is your suggestion?
LOL it sounds like you both need some lessons in manners!! He told you to ditch a boyfriend because he didn't approve of what you talked about?? And then you arranged a meeting time and never bothered to show up? You are both treating each other like 8 year olds, and then wonder why it's not working!!
A relationship is about love, trust, respect. You guys have not shown ANY of this to each other. He is quite right in breaking up with you if you were going to treat him like that. If you had an issue with the way he treated you it was your responsibility to TALK with him about that, not to treat him like dirt.
I would really suggest, if you DO want him back, that you apologize for acting immaturely and try to treat him like a best friend. Because that is what your partner in life should ALWAYS be first and foremost - your best friend that you talk to and handle all situations with.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com