Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating a guy for 3 months and I am pregnant with his child. His Ex girlfriend recently moved back into town from another state and he seems to be confused about where he wants to be with me or her, I am feeling insecure in my spot in this relationship and I am not sure if I want to invest anymore time or take things any further with him.
He told me that she tried to get back together with him and he told her had a girlfriend but what now????
You're very right to think seriously about this. Millions of women raise their kids alone and are VERY happy. But if you did try to stay with him "for the sake of the child" and he ended up cheating on you or running off with another woman it would really hurt you AND your child. So if he's going to be like that it's better to find out now, get rid of him and find a guy that CAN be a good partner to you and father to your child.
So sit down and have a serious talk with him. Tell him he needs to choose and to be completely honest with you. You would rather know now then later which way he is going to go. If he does say he wants to stay with you, then work your hardest to make the relationship work. Keep him well involved in your life and build those connections with him, so they stay strong even when the stress of the baby comes.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com