Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have a problem that I want you to help me solve.I have this friend called E who is really good with women.Sometimes he can bring a lady whom he barely knows, to his bedroom and chat with her for up to three hours! Occasionally,when I eavesdrop on their conversation, all I hear is the lady giggling!
After a couple of hours(!),the door of his room opens and the lady usually leads him out by the hand saying: 'you're terribly interesting, lets go to my room so we can continue this!' I have bought my friend so many drinks in order for him to let me in on his skills, that I am now broke! Please tell me how he does this (at least in your opinion).
All he's doing is flirting with them! Flirting has been done for thousands of years and it involves one person making another person feel good about themselves. We all want to be happy and have fun. When we run into someone who really makes us feel special, makes us happy, makes the time we spend together be great fun, we want to keep that fun going. That is what flirting is all about.
I have lots of tips on flirting here -
It comes down to being a fun person and having others enjoy that fun and want to share in it. It has NOTHING to do with being "good looking" by the way. I know some great looking guys who I would never want to spend more than 2 minutes with - and I know some "very normal" looking guys who are AMAZINGLY fun.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com