The Art of Flirting

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
About a week ago, I saw a pretty lady on a bus. Actually I was already seated, when she came up to me and asked if she could sit in the empty seat next to me.I managed to creatively misinterpret her and told her that she couldn't sit sit on my lap but she could sit on the seat next to me.

I wanted to continue teasing her (in a playful manner) throughout the course of the journey, I simply was at a loss for ideas. Please give me as many as possible. Advice
Those teasings and banters are all a natural part of flirting. I have lots of flirting ideas here -

but there's no "set list of phrases". The whole POINT of flirting is that it is situational and personal to the one special person you are with. If you use "set phrases" on her it sounds like those stupid pick-up lines people use in bars. You need to play up what IS HAPPENING RIGHT NOW and WHAT MAKES HER SPECIAL. Those don't come out of a book, they come from you paying attention to her and SHOWING her that you are paying attention to her.

-- from Jenn
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