Flirting or Liking Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I'm a 16 year old Junior and am in the marching band at school. During the summer I went to Europe with a giant group of band kids for concerts in 7 countries, and that's when I met this one guy. We hung around all the time and talked about everything. Then school rung around and he now hangs out with me at lunch and everything. Sometimes after football games we go hang out and stuff. Actually, when we hang out at lunch he always talks to me and makes fun of me. Sometimes on band trips, we hang out on the same bus and flirt around(well to me it's flirting).
Today actually one of his friends hugged me just as a kidding thing and I got "scared" so my crush kicked him in the butt for hugging me. Made me wonder. He sometimes worries about me too. Like one time I fell on the ground and got all scuffed up and he came around right away and asked if I was ok.
I really don't know if this is friend behavior or "I like you" behavior. Can you help me out a little?
Flirting IS about someone liking someone! Obviously he likes you to spend that much time and attention on you. So flirt back, and get to know him even better! Why not invite him to a movie as friends?
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com