Setting Traps for Cheating
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
When is enough enough? How do I find out that he is cheating on me? What kind of traps can I set for him?
I think the point is that it's enough when you do not have honesty and trust. There is no point in setting traps. You obviously don't trust him and are unhappy! Why would you want to catch him at it - so you can rub it in his face and laugh at him?
Your being unhappy is the issue. You feel mistreated and that he's not being honest. Sit down and talk with him about it. Either you get that resolved or you find a guy that you CAN feel like you trust. Even if you try to "prove" it one way or another, you're either going to feel like you just haven't caught him yet or that he's somehow hiding things from you. It's not about PROOF. It's about TRUST. So either you trust him, build that trust and go on, or you admit that you simply CANNOT trust him and find someone that you can.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com