What is my Boyfriend Feeling
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i asked my boyfriend if he finds i talk about my work to much and he said sometimes please let me know what he is feeling?
I have to admit that sometimes I feel like a Magic 8-Ball. Should I just roll around on the floor and think up the answer to what is going on in his brain? :) :) I don't know this guy, I have no idea what he's thinking or feeling or even what his hair color is. YOU are his girlfriend and YOU are the one who should be talking to him, listening to him and communication with him.
You asked him a question. "Do I talk about my work too much." He gave you an answer. "Sometimes". Obviously that means that he feels sometimes you talk about your work too much! So this means you two have an issue, that you sometimes go on and on about something he has lost interest in. Meaning there is a disconnect between how you guys are communicating. When he wants to change the topic, why doesn't he? Tell him to! Tell him to just TELL you when he wants to talk about something else! Either he tells you, or you will have NO way of knowing.
That is what a relationship is all about. Sharing how you feel with each other. So ask HIM to communicate better. *I* don't have any idea what he feels ... but HE does. And HE can tell you!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com