Friend to Boyfriend-Girlfriend

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I have a friend who I have fallen in love with. Ive liked her for 2 years or so and I have just recently let my feelings be known (a few months ago). She told me she would think about it and never really gave me a straight answer. I asked her later if she was trying not to hurt me or if she was seriously considering it and she said that she was seriously thinking about it, well we stopped talking about it for a while, but now recently we have been more and more flirty when we talk online. I'd also like to note that I currently don't have a job or a car, and that is the situation that her last boyfriend was in, and I'm pretty sure she is undecided as of now because she doesn't want to get right back in the same vibe like that.

Anyways, were supposed to hang out again soon, and I'm thinking about making atleast a nudge towards being romantic (at least kissing her). What do you think I should do when we get together to hang out? Advice
I would NOT go diving into a kiss. I have a whole how-to on how to take it slow

undoubtedly she's worrying about ruining the friendship. You have to take it slow and show her that the best relationships are about best friends who are also intimate. Take it slowly and show her just how good it can be to be friends AND to be romantic.

-- from Jenn
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