Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been sort of dating this guy J. But the problem is, we never get to see each other but only one day a week if that because he works all the time. Well, Last weekend I was supposed to hang out with him, He even called me and asked what I wanted to do. Well, he told me to call him back, and I did, many times but his cell phone kept "messing up".
Well I happened to walk by the pool hall that we met at a while back, and I seen his truck, I walked into the pool hall and sure enough it was him with another girl. Well He came out and the girl just left, I was outside talking to a few friends. And then J tried talking to me, and one of my friends started a fight with him because of what he "did" well he left because he didn't want to deal with all the fighting.
He called me about 10 minutes after he left and told me he was sorry and he should have used $.50 to use a pay phone to call me and he also told me that he was at the pool hall with a bunch of people and everyone left except her and him so they finished their game of pool and thats when i walked in. He also told me he has feelings for me and likes me a lot and wanted us to keep this "thing" going on that we have. But he also told me he doesn't want a relationship "right now" because he works all the time and really does not have time for it.
Do you think I should stay talking to this guy and see where this will go or should i just leave it alone and move on??
I really have to say that if MY boyfriend was out at a pool hall having fun, he would have picked up a pay phone and told me, if his cell phone was REALLY acting up. This guy only gets to see you one day a week, and when he has TIME that he could spend with you instead he's out joking around with another girl? It sounds like he wants to date other people, period.
I think I would call it quits and go find another boyfriend that not only has more time to spend with you but more DESIRE to spend time with you.
-- from Jenn
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