Long Distance Love
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
since my bf leaves for a long periods of time alot do you think it would be wrong to cheat on him i never have but it's something that runs through my head alot this question is not just for me but for him too.
Sex is not the answer to the universe!! It is ALWAYS ALWAYS wrong to cheat on someone. How about the women whose men are off in war, who remain loyal to them for years. You are only trying to last a few months without a "guy making love to you". How about the women who remain a virgin until they are 25 or older because they are waiting for the perfect husband? If thousands of women can wait and treasure their love, and you can't last a few weeks, that is pretty clear.
Sex is momentary. Love is eternal. If you really can't survive without sex for a few months because your true soulmate love is a few miles away, it's not much of a love. Either you love your partner and you are satisfied with that love, or you are just in lust with your partner and want to jump in bed with any warm body that comes along. Only you can decide if what you feel is animal lust or true love.
Cheating is wrong. Either you are a partner with someone or you are not. Either you are in control of what you do with your body or you are not.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com