Long Distance Love Affair
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Theres this girl I met online who lives long distance. We've never physically met but shes really attractive from the pictures. Conversations on the phone has been great also. Weve only been in contact for two weeks but I have a serious crush on this woman, she seems intrested also. We're even trying to figure out on how we're going to meet and spend time.
My only concern and I ask you, how do I keep and raise her interest level up for so long until we meet? Im confident enough that once we meet I have some tools to sweep her off her feet. But its just long distance and the phone thing is not working like I wanted. I want to continue to raise her interest level on the phone untill we meet. Can you help me?
People have been falling in love long distance since the days of the Romans and letters. Many people would flirt for years and years before they ever met! The fact that you have a phone, internet, video etc. means it's far easier for you than it ever was for them. I have lots of advice on long distance love here -
but if it was meant to be, you don't need to kill yourself "keeping the interest high". Heck, the interest should naturally build as you get to be better and better friends, getting more and more familiar with each other. If she loses interest after only a few weeks, it just wasn't meant to be. For most people, it just gets more and more interesting as you spend time talking.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com