He Seems to be Losing Interest
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I'M 16 AND THE GUY I AM WITH IS 19. AND WE MESS AROUND...YOU KNOW (yes, i'm still a virgin though.) AND IT USED TO BE SO FUN IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I WOULD GO VISIT HIM @ WORK AND HE WOULD BE HAPPY TO SEE ME.
NOW HE DOESNT SEEM *AS* EXCITED TO SEE ME. THEN THE OTHER NIGHT HE TOLD ME TO CALL HIM @ A CERTAIN TIME AND HE DIDNT EVEN ANSWER HIS PHONE! AND I CALLED NUMEROUS TIMES AFTER THAT STILL NOTHING...
WHAT SHOULD I DO? IS HE TIRED OF ME? I HAVEN'T TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT YET BECUASE I CAN NEVER GET A HOLD OF HIM! PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Every relationship goes through its phases - none can maintain a high-rev level forever. He may have just been busy that night and not gotten home until late. All relationships take work and effort to maintain and it might be that you guys have let things drag. I have a TON of tips on my site to keep the love levels going - be sure to read through them and give some a try. It may get him back into the swing of things! But definitely don't just let it slide. If you do, it'll slide right into a breakup.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com