Not Sure about Birthday Date
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
My problem here is that I am sending a birthday card to my ex whom I havent spoken to in awhile..
I have a beautiful card and a nice message written.
However I am starting to second guess her birthdate..
I am 99% sure it is Sept 19 but I also am thinking about the date Oct 19 for some reason it might be a date of something else significant i dont know for sure
We werent together on her birthday ever and I know its one of the 2 for sure..
I dont want to stupid if I get the dates confused but no matter what I am sending the card for Sept 19 since I really do think it is then and would rather be early than late a month
My question is what is the best way to start this card seeing im not 100% sure ?
Should I say " Im quite sure its your birthday on the 19th and I wanted to wish you Happy Birthday "
OR Should I just go with it and say "I wanted to wish you Happy Birthday" ?
Im sorry if this question sounds stupid but I dont know if its something that could hurt me if I mess up the birthdate
Maybe since its a nice gesture it wouldnt matter to her but I want to take the right steps
I look forward to your feedback...
I would simply wish her a happy birthday. If you're wrong, she'll still be touched that you thought of her. Few people get annoyed that someone thought of them and made a minor mistake along the way :).
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com