Hes going awkwardly far, fast...Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my bf have been dating for a month. We kissed after 2days and started making out after like a week. Hes already slept over at my house!! Im 15. Hes not a virgin and i am. Hes done just about everything and ive only made out with a guy!! Lately weve been "having sex with our clothes on." he started it. We french kiss and like hump at the same time. I dont mind it but im scared of going farther faster! He makes me feel so inexperienced!! How do i indirectly let him know that thats as far as im willing to go especially when its only been a month!?
Just tell him, in a clear and nice way, that you are not ready for sex yet. You don't need to have any reasons or explanations for that, and you should never feel pressured. If this is an honorable guy, he will listen to you and not try to push.
Stay with what is comfortable for you, go at your own pace, and never let anyone make you feel like you have to give in sexually to keep a boyfriend.
-- from Jill
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