A Crush on a Girl
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ive been at this school for a long time and ive liked many people, and ive stopped liking them (the girls i like). but this other girl is different.
Anyway... im a freshman and i liked this girl in my class last year... and i liked her for the whole year... this girl was here in 6th grade and i didnt really know her, but i saw her and i thought she was really pretty and i thought she was ok. the next year (7th grade) she left then in 8th grade she came back, and i thought, oh... its her... (in 6th grade i didnt really like her so i didnt... like her... or in other words have feelings for her) Then as time passed i sort of... started liking her more... (im not really a shy guy) but im shy to people i like...
anyway... i told some of my friends cuz i trusted them... but some how everyone knew that i liked her (including her)... so... i felt real uncomfortable when i saw her or just to talk to her... and i didnt really get to know her...
the year past and nothing happened... i didnt make a move becuz i was......scared... then this year came, i didnt like her as much anymore... my feeling for her werent as strong i guess. then one day this one dude thats good frends with my crushes best frend told him that she (the person i like) liked me in the end of the last year... and i started liking her again... i kept thinking if she really liked me then....... yea... and i feel that its real awkward to talk to her now since she knew i liked her last year... and its kinda weird just to go up to her and ... talk to her... so i dunno what to do
when i was reading ur site, i was thinking about her the whole time... yea... thanx for helping
It's really common to have crushes on schoolmates and for them to know it and for the whole situation to get a bit stressful. But all this involves is some flirting! The whole "what do I say" and "how do I talk to her" is all about flirting and breaking the ice. I have a TON of flirting tips on the site.
So stop thinking about her as an object of conquest. Think of her as a fun friend to flirt with. Read the various flirting tips and start 'entering her world' gently. Each day talk to her a bit more, wave at her when you pass, smile at her when you see her. If you take it slow and steady, it won't be about "that strange guy who had a crush on me." It'll be about "That friendly guy who is nice to me when I see him."
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com