she is always in front of my eyes
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
my ex broke up wid me last month.i begd, cried, argued,but it dint wrk.den i came to know about the no contact rule,i started it but we study in same class.and in same tutions..we meet evryday.. Its so hard to follow the rule..sometimes i tak wid her and also cant stop staring at her.. Wat can i do? Wil the no contact rule work in my case? Please help me! I want her back!
I am not sure I know what you mean by the no contact rule. Is this something you two agreed on for how to act around each other - in other words, to not make eye contact or talk to each other?
If so, then you need to either try harder to abide by your rules, or talk to her honestly about how hard this is for you. Let her know it's too hard to maintain that sort of distance when you are both forced to be around each other. It's better to be forthright and honest than to seem like a stalker. See what she thinks of you two talking, and even of your staring at her - maybe she would be okay with being friends. Maybe she might even still have feelings for you. But if you have begged for her to be with you and she resisted, that might be her answer still.
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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