Our Relationship is Quieting Down
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
When I started going out with my girlfriend, things were great, she used to tell me a lot of intimate things, and of course I did the same, and used to call each other many times and send emails and all.
Its been more than a year and our relationship has been great, but now she has cut down on her mails and telephones and dont want to hear intimate things from me everyday.
Do You think she is falling out of Love? I really Love her and dont want to Loose Her. and deep inside i know she Loves me too, but how can I be assuered that Iam not doing anything wrong?
I Will really appreciate your Help.
It's very normal for a relationship to settle down into a more quiet, mature love as the years go by. If people had to keep up the frantic rush of new love all the time, they would burn out! Instead, people evolve into being best friends, who rely on each other, care for each other and know they'll be there for the long haul.
I have info on relationship stages here -
of course there should always be love in your relationship but love has nothing to do with calling 4 times a day or talking dirty. It has to do with caring for each other. It shouldn't have to be "proven".
I have lots of romantic tips on my site, if you want to do little things to help keep romance in your life, though!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com