We Kissed, He Drew Back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have known this guy since last year, but it wasn't until two weeks ago, when he asked me for my number, that we actually started talking talking. He told me he liked me and I told him I liked him back.
Things were going so well, I went over to his house three days ago and we kissed, but now he is acting very distant. We don't really even talk anymore. What is happening, people say that he does like me, but he is not showing it anymore. Please help me on this one.
It sounds like you pretty much lept from talking to kissing without ever getting to know each other. It might be that he feels uncomfortable about that! Work on being FRIENDS with him, to build up that relationship base. You can't be good dates if you aren't even friends in the first place.
So chat with him, get to know him better. Share your interests and dreams, ask him about his. The more you guys know about each other, the more comfortable you'll be with each other, the less unsure he'll feel. Then it can build back up into kissing and more, and it won't be as scary for him.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com