Is This Love?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have been dating this guy for a while and i have noticed that he isnt like other guys. I can talk to him in ways that i can't talk to other guys and i always want to be with him. I just enjoy being around him. And he is the same way with me becuase we have talked about it.

Is this Love? Or am i just rushing to conclusions? Advice
It definitely sounds like you guys are building a strong friendship which is a key component of love. Real love takes months to build and results when you really know ALL there is to know about each other, bad AND good. Often in the first few months of a relationship you FEEL strongly but you are seeing each other's good sides and minimizing the importance of any 'bad sides'. After a few months you start to become very aware of the bad sides too and for a while they bother you. But eventually (assuming you stay together) you learn to accept those bad sides, and accept the whole person. It's at that point that you are really in love.

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so give it time and see how it goes!

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