Now I want him Back
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Ok so I was involved with this guy for a couple of months..We met online after talking for about a month and then we met and got serious..We had a few differences early on, nothing major but then I got stressed out with a job change and physically sick with other things. We had one big fight and I ended the relationship. I hung up on him and never called him back. For the next month he texted me several times, called and left voicemails and sent me a letter and I never responded..
So I totally blew him off..I have started to think about him since I did care about him. It has been about 2 months since his last call and Id like to talk to him.. I miss him. I want to contact him but I feel stupid now.I wouldnt be so confused if I didnt blow him off so much but I literally ignored 10 attempts of him trying to contact me after hanging up on him..What would you suggest ?
Just swallow your pride and reach out to him. Call him, tell him you are sorry for your treatment of him, and that you miss him. Suggest you do something together, and see how that goes. You might have hurt him badly enough that he has moved on in his heart...but maybe not. It will show good faith on your part, and courage, to make contact with him again. Good luck!
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com