I can't stop thinking about her.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
We dated for 1vyear and a half. We were always close until I got a job to help my parents pay bills around the house. after I got a job we stop seeing each other as often maybe once or twice a month. I couldn't handel the job and her at the same time so I told her that I had no time for her right now and I think its time to break up. Now its been 2 years we still talk to each other about 3 to 4 times a week. But when we broke up I can't stop thinking about her or stop dreaming about her she is always on my mind so what do I do.
I wonder if maybe you aren't being honest with yourself. Usually if you really want to be with someone, you make it happen. It doesn't matter how busy you are with a job. If you really wanted this with her you would not have ended things. You might even be leading her on by the constant closeness on the phone, which is not fair to her.
If you see a future with her, make it happen now. If not, be honest with her and yourself, and let her move on. Don't drag this limbo state out any longer. Being friends is fine, but being ambiguous with her feelings isn't.
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com