Hes my BFF
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
He is soo sweet and we have been BFFs for a while and we are always talking bout watever - we are really close. I really like him and when i asked him if he liked me he said yes - but only a little bit. We go football games together and we sit there and he says he wants to take loads of pictures for memories. And he is generally so sweet. I wanna know if i should ask him if he really like likes me and would he ever consider going out with me! Please help!
It sounds like you have an excellent friendship. Do you think the friendship can withstand the pain that might come from any possible rejection on either side? I always lean towards the side of being open and honest, but it's hard to say if he might freak out or not. Do some serious thinking about what you really want here. Can you be okay if he only thinks of you as a friend? Will he be okay if he realizes you want more than he does?
You should probably work up your courage to ask him. It may lead to wonderful things. Just be prepared in case it gets weird between you. At the very least, you will KNOW, one way or the other. Good luck!
-- from Jill
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