she said she wanted space.....Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i am 30 years old and she is 23 and we was dateing for like 2 months and we had 4 fights and 4 outta and i had admitted to 3 of them that was my fault and her and mom got into it real bad and she ended up liveing with me for like a week and half and then we went to her uncle's 50 birthday and i felt that i was the bad guy. so sunday night and everything was all good. and monday when we woke at 10am for her to go to her interview for a job when she left my house i felt like they had a grudge against me beacuse of her movieng in with me. so i sent her a message on facebook tellhin her how i felt and i sent a text to her phone letting her i sent a message to her and she checked then she whent to her doctor's apt for her tooth and then whent to her brother's house to sleep off the meds and then called me we talked and she was in tears and she had told she has been in tears all day and thinking about things and bout us then she said she was gonna go to her moms house and talk to her and i said i already know what is goin to happen an she said what i said bascily she was gonna break up with me and that is what she did but when she came to get her clothes she wanted some space i was cool then i found out that on monday when she whent to her moms house to talk to her she called her ex boyfriend to come to her house and talk to her then they ended up getting back to gether to 2 weeks then she found out he was lieing to her and they broke up now she says she wanna be single for a while we talk every once in a while she talks to my mom and my daughter all the time. i wanna know how can i get her back please help
I think what she told you is exactly what she needs. She needs her time and space to think things over, to heal and to decide what it is she wants in life.
If you push her too fast to get back with you, you won't be doing either of you any favors. Be her friend, and don't push for more. She knows you care about her. If she wants more, she will find a way to let you know.
-- from Jill
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