me and my friend are in love but she's engaged

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hi there im 23 years old male and my friend is 19 years old female and we have fallen deeply in love with each other because we think that we are made for each other because we have so so much love,passion,trust,and a very lot of things in common with each other. The only problem is that she is engaged to her boyfriend of 4 years and that there relationship is takeing a turn for the worst at the moment.

So if u can could u PLEASE PLEASE give me some advice on what to do. As me and my friend have unlimited love for each other. Advice
Whew. This is not a good situation. She is engaged! If this girl loves you then she needs to break off her engagement. If she can't do that, then you need to realize how much hurt all three of you will end up in, sooner or later. The ball is basically in her court, here, but you can be the adult one and let her know she has to decide - now.

Perhaps give her a reason to officially be with you?

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