Is it really impossible?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
We were perfect up until 6 months, which is when i joined summer school with him, thats when people started getting involved, telling lies and brainwashing us. Things went downhill from there, i admit i overreacted, but he never owned up to his feelings.. he would be dying inside but he wouldn't put in any effort to fix things, although he did care.. he would try to make me believe that he didn't care, you know, the whole pride thing.. so anyway, after people got involved.. our relationship got destroyed, which destroyed me.. so i did everything your not supposed to do after a breakup, i kept calling him, msging him, bringing up the past.. he soon blocked me and stopped answering my calls.. but the problem is.. he blames me for being the cause of all the drama we had, he doesnt know who was involved and what lies were told.. i never told him the truth, i kept it inside because i thought the accusations were true.. so i think he should know.. and i never got to talk to him about anything in person because he never let me
i really want him back, its been 2 years and i realized we were perfect for each other, should i talk to him and confront him with the truth? how do i get him to talk to me and respect me again? without people telling me to forget him -___-
I think he's made it clear he does not want to talk with you any more. I think you need to respect that. I know it is painful and that you want to explain it all out, be forgiven, and try again. You can try a few things: move on and let time sort things out, write him a long, honest letter and mail it to him, or keep pestering him to the point where he wishes he never met you.
We've all made these mistakes after a breakup, so don't feel too badly. I'd try the long letter. At least you will have done your best to explain your side of things, and usually just writing it all done will make you feel a lot better.
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com