A younger guy acting strangely
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
So, I have known this guys for a couple of months. He is a foreigner and we hang out so I show him the city, we have also been to a cafe a couple of times. Recently I noticed things like: he keeps asking me questions about what I like (e.g when we passed by the skating rink, he asked me if I like iceskating. the same happened with the swimming pool - when he heard that I cannot swim, he expressed the desire to teach me). Stuff like that has been going on for weeks - with the bowling club (he always picks me to be in his team), he asks me if I like to eat this or that and if I say yes, he is the happiest person in the world and rushes to buys it. It seems like he always tries to please me when we are together - with food, music, etc.
2 weeks ago he had to move to a city nearby because of his job. Now he acts and talks like he longs to see me. He just left and he keeps asking if I will go to that city soon. He came back to my city for business 5 days ago and we talked and when he was about to leave he asked if I would go to his city soon. My immediate inner thought was "But we just saw each other?!" And so on and so forth -he pays me compliments all the time and likes touching my clothes, but with some nervousness... Two days ago I saw his eyes near mine and his pupils were huge despite the bright daylight and the luminescent lamps...
So, I guess I am reading all that right - he is attracted to me, right? There is an issue though - he is 8 years younger than me. How can I help him and myself to overcome this problem?
I think I answered your question in a later email you sent, yes? I think it's clear he likes you very much. Sometimes boys from another country can be much older than the local boys you know - it depends on how he has grown up. Having a good job and traveling a lot have probably given him valuable life experience. I would give him a shot!
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com