how can i get her back?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am in college about an hr away from her now but I do go back home some weekends. We dated for 10 months and broke up a year ago. She has a new boyfriend who she has been with for a couple months. She still texts me and always tries to find reasons to talk to me. One friday I was home so I went to the high school football game and during halftime when she was performing, she noticed that i wasnt watching and she texted me about it and said i wish i would talked to you at the game. Then the following week she texts me out of no where and asks me if i was coming to the game this week and i said I dont know why? and she said just wondering. It was kinda weird since we don't talk much and it made me wonder if she still had feelings for me and if she thinks about me. What do you think? and how can i get her back?
She sounds like a young girl who really doesn't know what or who she wants. She likes teasing you while she has another boyfriend. It makes her feel that she's controlling you and him. Since you're off at college, I suggest you find someone there and forget about this little girl. Good luck.
-- from Jill
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