Guys are strangers to me.

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I 15 years old, and crushing on a guy (let's give him an anonymous name: BOB). So BOB and I once played in a band together, but ever since we stopped, we haven't been talking that much together-since it was the only place where we really could be in eachothers company.
Later on BOB moved to my school, and we have had small conversations over the internet. My crush for BOB has grown, and I really want something to happen between us.
My question is: how? How do I let him know, what I'm expecting?

BOB hasn't given me any opening, and I really doubt his feelings for me. I think my flirting might be to subtle for him to notice, but how can I make it more obvious for him? keep in mind we arent close friends, more aquaintances. Advice
Since you're both going to the same school, you should find time to get to know him better before trying to let him know that you have a crush on him. You could strike up a conversation with him at some point, and find out his likes and dislikes. You may find that you have nothing in common or a lot in common. Then go from there - build on what you have in common and see if you could study together, or go for a walk, or grab a soda together.

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