Second Chance with my Ex
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i had a baby with my ex and we had split 1 year ago. just recently i was involved with another girl who happened to get pregnant. we ended up spitting apart.
when i got kicked out of my place my 1st baby momma insisted of me staying with her for a couple months while i get back on my feet.
now the thing is that i'm falling for her again, knowing we split 1 year ago and she went through some bad relationship as well.
i don't know if i should give her time to heal or just move on with my life. i don't know what else to do. me and my baby son have a really great bond. she sees that he loves me so much.
I think it's a really good sign that your ex insisted that you come stay with her for a few months. Many exs would never make that kind of offer, never mind to insist on it. It shows that she cares a lot for you and wants you around your child.
I would hang on and work on this. Yes, she is dealing with the break-up hurt, that can be hard. But you can show her every day that she can rely on you and that things will be better this time. Take it one step at a time. Reprove yourself to her, that you can be the partner that she dreams of.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com