She Flirts but Won't Date
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
So there's this girl I really like but i don't know what she's trying to do!
I started to chat with her 3 months ago, and we had some great dates together!
But the problems start here.... she doesn't want me to be her BF or any relationship with me !
If so, then why does she still keeps chatting with me ? She calls me ''sweety'' !? And as soon as school starts she wants to meet me again ?
Why is she doing this to me ? What is she trying to do ?
I think what we have here is a matter of wording :)
She does have a relationship with you - you are good friends who go places together, who talk with each other, and who have fun together. She likes you. She enjoys you.
But you want, I imagine, to kiss her. And she doesn't want to do that.
So what you need to do is help her become comfortable with getting closer, physically, to you. You already have the hard part done - she likes spending time with you! Now it's just a matter of increasing the physical contact.
We have step by step advice on doing that here -
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com