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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my ex and i have been separated for quite a long time and we share the custody of our 3 year old daughter. This means that we are going to have to be in steady communication, seeing each other because of the baby. That makes it hard for me to get over it.

i feel like i've done a lot of progress because i don't think i feel the same as when we separated. it's just that sometimes i can't help it but to think of her.

also i work and go to college and that keeps me busy. but at the same time it doesn't give me time to get to know other girls more in depth.

also not to mention the fact that i got a DUI and my license is suspended so i can't even go out by myself!

i been having bad luck lately and all those situations make it hard for me to start a new relationship or anything that might help me forget about her.

what can i do? Advice
Somehow you get to work and school, so there have to be ways to get around. Many guys meet girls at school, so that seems to be the ideal place to focus. Are there any clubs at school that you could fit into your work schedule? Clubs are fantastic ways to meet girls in a supportive environment. Plus, if it's a club relating to a hobby you enjoy, it practically guarantees that the girls you meet will also love that same hobby.

I'd start with the school club angle, since you're there anyway and can connect it to what you are already doing. That should be the easiest thing to find time for.

Good luck!

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