She Cut Me Off

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
So there is this girl I really like but I can't understand anything from her ! She says that she doesn't want anything more between us !

But here's the story - So I started to chat with her online and later on we thought that we should meet each other some day ! It really went well and one week later we met another time. We had a great time... we where holding hands (she was first who grabbed my hand) and it was really nice !

But after that last date everything changed. And so she said that it's over and she doesn't want anything more. Some times she said that she's just has bad memories of this !

So why did she ever want me to meet up with her ? Why did she did all these things and said nice thing about me ?

Please give me some advice ! I really don't know what to do... im so confused ! :( Advice
If you two had fun on previous dates then the big question is what changed on that last date. Clearly something fairly important happened that made her decide to stop seeing you. Think long and hard about every aspect of the date. Is there anything at all that stands out?

If you are absolutely at a total loss, that's not a good sign. Something happened that was traumatic for her and you were completely oblivious of it.

Your only hope then is to write her and gently say that you're trying to improve your skills for going forward. That you would like to know what happened on that last date so that you can know to pay more attention to it going forward with other girlfriends. That way she doesn't think (for now) that you're trying to get her back, and she's more likely to be honest. She'll feel like she's helping you.

See what she says!

-- from Lisa
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