I'm Shy - She's Shy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I like this girl and two of my friends know and they bought us together. On a Friday after school, they say that I had something to tell her and I was shy. I guess she is too. I said I would talk to her on Monday.
When I did I said I wanted to go to the movies with her. She said yeah we will just hang out. She said we will hang with friends. but I'm grounded this week so next week, so I said that's fine.
After that she doesn't talk to me until like a good 2 weeks now. we are barely at the Hi whats up stage. I also heard she doesn't like me and I heard she does. I don't know which to believe.
You seem to make it sound like you're waiting around for her to talk to you - and she's shy - so this could be a really long wait. You can't just sit around waiting for her to take the first step. She's probably waiting for YOU to take the first step.
Everyone can be shy. We all have to take action to get over that shyness when something we care about is on the line. It's your time to step up to the plate.
We have thousands of tips on this site about flirting. So start reading them and using them! Talk to her EVERY DAY. Build that relationship. Show her you're interested and show her you're fun to talk with.
That's what you have to do in order to start getting closer to her. You can't just wait for her to do all the work.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com