Guy is Leaving and will Cheat
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Please help me. What should i do? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and eight months but things haven't been so well. I always get hurt and stepped on in the relationship.
I love him so much that i would never want to break up with him even if he cheats on me but i know i deserve better. He loves me too and we both know it. But we're both going to different countries very soon. I know that long-distance would be very hard. I'm pretty sure he knows that too.
What should i do? Break up with him even though i don't want to or try to work it out even though i know he'll be fooling around with other girls?
I know it's challenging, but you yourself say that you deserve better. You can love someone and still accept that they are not the perfect match for you. Wish him the best, know that he'll have fun in his new location, and that he'll be exploring all his options there. Release him to that fun.
Then give yourself a fresh start. Look for someone who not only loves you but also respects you and treats you with respect. You deserve that from life, and the guy who has those traits is out there waiting for him.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com