Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been together a fair few months, and we argue alot. He claims i'm clingy, i claim he just doesn't bother with me. Recently we went on a break, but this only lasted 2 days. When i spoke to him, he said that he didn't love me like he did. But he still wanted to be with me, and he still 'liked' me. I went through this postition with my ex. This time i'm so scared of losing him the way i lost my ex im going out of my mind. What should i do? I don't think i could handle losing someone like that again.
I think you really like this guy a lot, but I don't see why. He seems to be emotionally abusive and he may even get a thrill out of hurting you. Now here's a question I want you to ask yourself: how do you feel about how he treats you? Is this a way you would treat someone you care for? If you had a best friend and saw that her boyfriend was treating her the way your boyfriend treats you, would you say something to her? I bet you would. You sound like a sweet, caring girl so I'm going to be your best friend for a minute and tell you that you deserve someone who'll treat you like the wonderful person I think you are. There are guys out there who would love to have someone like you. Just be patient, continue to be the sweetheart you are right now and that special someone will find you.
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com