What Should i Do?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
HELLO, THE PROBLEM IM HAVING IS THAT I HAD AN ONLINE ROMANCE WITH THIS GUY FOR 2 YEARS AND THEN WE BROKE UP AND STAYED AS FRIENDS, BUT WE STILL WANTED TO SEE EACH OTHER IN PERSON, WE WERE BOTH PLANNING A TRIP TO SEE EACH OTHER IN PERSON AND EVERYTHING WAS GOING WELL UNTIL ALL OF A SUDDEN HE HASENT BEEN ONLINE NOR CALLED ME OR CONTACTED ME ABOUT THE TRIP IT.S LIKE HE DISSAPPEARED WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I CALL HIM TO SEE WHAT HAPPENED? AFTER SO MANY MONTHS OF PLANNING THIS IMPORTANT TRIP AND HE SUDDENLY WENT MISSING? THANKS.
If you have a phone number for him then you should try calling just to make sure that nothing terrible has happened to him. Otherwise there isn't a lot you can do until he contacts you. Try to be patient and see if he resumes contact, however after a few weeks of no contact I would try to get on with life. You can't spend the rest of your life waiting on someone who may never call. You sound like a beautiful person; there will be someone out there for you. Good luck and best wishes.
-- from Jill
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