my always behind me friend

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi, i've noticed that a girl in my class would like to talk to me more. I know what is holding her back: it's someone from my class, who is ALWAYS behind my butt in school, he is the biggest nerd i've ever met. Unfortunally, he has no other friends, i've promised that guy that i will help him being less nerd then now(because i know how he feels, i've been in that situation to). I'm just fearing that he will always scare the girls away from my area:(. And even if that girl in my class won't be a decent match, then my friend will still chase me on party, so my chance of scoring is low with him. Should I dispose of him, or should i hurry up in making him less nerd, so i can talk to this girl more decently.
thnx for your time and answer :) Advice
I think it's nice that you're trying to help this guy. It's tough being the outcast. I think you should focus more on helping your 'friend' than trying to score with the babes. There will always be plenty of girls around, but good friends can be hard to find.

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