I want Her back In My life.Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I m 26 yrs old and here is my problem.
First of all, I should tell we both were never a couple. I have known her for almost 15 years as a family frnd. About four years ago, we got physically involved,but i was not ready to commit as i was not doing well in school, and was not really sure if I will have any future, so i told her to forget it all, without giving any reasons for my decision.
Now I am an software engg., but more importantly i realised I have loved this girl all my life. I have been a kind of person who never believed in things like feelings and love, but now that i have realised that I was wrong I really want her back.
I told her about my feelings, and apologized for my actions, on which she said that there was nothing wrong in what happened between us (sex), but what u did after that was wrong (asking her to go away). She told me that my punishment for breaking her heart is that she would never come back to me.
I really love her, i know i have been stupid, but now I can't even imagine my life without her. Please tell what should I do, I have never been in a relationship I know nothing about showing my feelings instead of saying them.
please help me.
I think you should move on and forget about this girl. Since you said you've never been in a relationship, I think you should try to learn from this one. I hear you saying some of the things you regret saying or doing. You'll get better at how to treat someone you care about as time goes along. You're only 26; there's plenty of time to find the right girl, and with this experience under your belt, you won't make the same mistakes. Good luck!
-- from Jill
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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