Is he interested?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay, so there's this guy I've had my eye on for quite awhile. He's a really sweet guy, and we're friends but there have been moments where things are just a little... Different.
Although there are many small occurances that have made me question this fact, I will only list out the major ones.
The first time was when one of my friends invited a few people out to the movies. The guy I am asking about was involved. Apparently, once my name was mentioned, he immediately accepted. During the movie, my friend (knowning I like him), had us sit next to each other, and toward the end of the movie a small game of footsies was taking place.
The next major thing that had me questioning whether or not he was interested was during a rehearsal for a musical we were both participating in. I was walking by, and when he saw me he grabbed me, pulled me closer to him and rested his head on mine until he had to go out for his scene. I've also noticed that several times when he walked by me he would ran his hand through my hair if he couldn't stick around for long.
The most recent developement is that he hugs me on an almost daily basis. We talk to each other whenever possible, and he has shared some personal things with me. I'm also pretty sure I've seen him staring at me during our english class, however that probably isn't the most concrete hint.
I'm pretty sure he's at least a bit interested, but I'm not positive. Any advice you could give would be very much appreciated.
I would guess that this guy does like you. Having someone run their fingers through your hair is a very intimate thing. You sound very sweet and so does he, so it would not be at all out of the question to have someone like him interested in you. I would take the time to get to know him better. Ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime, maybe go for a walk. I'm pretty sure his answer will be yes.
-- from Jill
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