Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So my sister has a friend and he is older than me. By 9 years. He could go to jail if anything ever happened. But we are really close we talk all the time. and i am almost positive that he likes me back. Should i wait for me to be 18 so we can be together or should i move on...? Advice
A big red flag just went up when I read your letter. I have to ask why he's not spending time with girls/women his own age? There are guys that look for relationships with young girls and nothing good will ever come of this. You're right in saying he could get into trouble if you have sex with him, and there's a reason why this is against the law. Underage girls usually don't have the maturity or experience to deal with this kind of thing, so the law tries to protect you. Move on and don't look back.

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