I need help,
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I met this guy named nathan two years ago. I immediatly fell in love with him the day i met him. We dated on and off the first year i met him, But now this is a whole different situation. At the beginning of this school year we dated and it was nothing like the year before. We broke up on a couple of occasions cause i thought he was cheating, like i went through his phone and there was a bunch of texts from girls saying they loved him and talking dirty to him and it made me mad. The other occasion was a girl left comments on his myspace saying she loved him, so i emailed her. she told me they were dating for 4 years and they were engaged and i asked him about it and said he only dated her a week when we broke up and he ended immidetly because she was creepy. now recently we were dating for 4 months evedrything was good, until he told me his life plans, he planned on going to college where his ex went because she told him to. I broke up with him. But i miss him, and i want him back. I told him i wanted him back and he said hed text me the next dya and never did. I went to add him on myspace, and there was a bunch of stuff on there, and i asked him if he was really engaged to a girl the same day i broke up with him. I need an opinion if you think he cheated on my the whole time or he was just doing it to spite me, because i really miss him. and need advice.
Of course he's been cheating on you - probably since you've known him. This guy is a player. You sound like a really sweet girl and could do so much better than this guy. Why would you stay in such a rotten relationship? There is someone out there who would love to have a great girl like you in his life! Tell him goodbye and move on to someone who is interested in you and you alone. Good luck.
-- from Jill
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