Don't know what to do

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I've known this girl for a year or two now and recently we've started talking again. On the phone. Online. We both live pretty far away from each other so actually meeting up isn't very probable. But we talked pretty much everyday until one of us had to sleep.

Then all of a sudden it just stopped one day. She didn't come online anymore and she never picked up her phone. We had smaller conversations since but it usually lasts 10-15minutes and then she has to leave. And I usually don't hear from her again for awhile.

I really do care about her but I don't know what to do. Is there even anything I can do? Her friend even told me that she is happy when she talked to me and to be there for her when her family got into a fight that scared her. I tried to call her or message her to try and make her feel better or do anything. And nothing, didn't pickup or anything. I just figured I'd send an email to her telling her how I feel since I can't really do it any other way. Just don't have a clue about what to do.

Thanks in advance. Advice
Online romances can be tricky. If you've tried calling and sending emails and got no response, then there isn't anything you can do. If you know that she's alive and well and hasn't fallen off the face of the earth, then the obvious conclusion is that she doesn't want to talk to you. Only she can tell you why, but since she isn't returning calls, you'll never know for sure. One big thing you can be sure of is that you can move ahead and get on with your life. She can't take that away from you. You sound like a decent guy so find someone who'll appreciate you. Best of luck to you.

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