Im out of options in every way...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Alright so lately i've been really wanting a relationship with a girl and im really getting lonely these days as i see couples everywhere and theres a whole of things i wanna try and i see cute girls in alot of places, and the school i go to right now is a school where u just put ur music on and work on ur own, u can't talk as it distracts others and u just focus on ur work as there is no teacher, its a "Work at ur own pace" kind of school, so i can't really talk to any girls at school and i want girls from outside anyway...So i was wondering how can a guy approach a girl outside, can u just go up to a cute girl and start talking to her out of the blue? and like if u need to make contact first, how am i suppose to ever come in contact with girls at the mall or in stores? but most likely in the mall, how do i talk to them? I never know what to say to girls i don't know and i get nervous of what they think of me first hand, Help please i really need to break the ice with someone as i've been kinda locking myself from the world lately and now im missing it...
There's absolutely no exact script for approaching a girl. For one thing, every girl is different, so a line that works for one girl may be insulting to the next. Even though you're not allowed to talk in school, there must be an opportunity to talk after class, maybe in the hall or outside. Is there one girl in particular you're interested in? The best approach is to find common ground - perhaps movies or music? That's the best place to start. Good luck.
-- from Jill
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