i love her more than life. but i lost her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
im in a very unique situation. i wont hold back that im only 14. we started going out when we fell completely in love at three years old. i lived in marisevill WA at the time and when i was six i moved to Sceatle. we were still together but we saw eachother much less. my tenth bday was the last time i saw her for at least two years but i never doubted for a minute that we were still going out. i showed up for a surprise vizit when i was 12. and she had forgotten about my existance because of so much that happened beetween those two years. as a result she was dating other guys. after that it was off an on for a wile but i never made the mistake of leaving her alone for a long time. the last time i saw her face to face it was OUR thirteenth bday. we went in a limo to the space needle while i sang love songs to her. two weeks later, she called and said that we didnt spend enough time together and the breakup happened. its been almost a year sinse that day. i kno it sounds crazy but ten years is enough time to tell that you love someone and i love her. i kno wat went wrong but i need to show her that im still the right guy for her.
Find a nice girl at your school, form a friendship with her and learn from it.
Then when you turn 18 and you think you still love this girl then find her and tell her. At 14 you are still very young, and so is she. You both need to experience a lot more before either of you will be ready to create a life together. If you are meant to love each other forever, trust that it will happen. You will both be happier together later if you have had other relationships to grow from.
-- from Jill
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